Thursday, June 19, 2014

Summer Schedule

We are excited to be coming back to Canada for a few weeks this summer!!  It is officially less than 2 weeks now and we will be on Canadian soil. The following is our summer schedule while we are in Canada. Please feel free to join us at one of our events.

JULY 3                      ARRIVE IN CANADA
JULY 6    10am          The Miz City Church Lethbridge      1303-13 street north, Lethbridge
JULY 8    7 pm           Youngstown, AB   Tom & Bev Edler
JULY 13  9 & 11 am   Calvary Community Church        8704 Mill Woods Road, Edmonton
JULY 13    3pm          Fresh Manna Fellowship church    12803 159 Aveune, Edmonton
JULY 17  5 pm           Hobbema church
JULY 20   am             Jerusalem City Church     14323 107A Ave NW, Edmonton    (Congolese)
JULY 20 5-7pm          ERBC    10603 Ellerslie Road SW
JULY 27    am            Valleyview Evangel Pentecostal Church   Valleyview, AB

AUG 3                        TBA
AUG 6  pm                 Saskatoon with Barb/Allen Barr
AUG 9-11                   TBA
AUG 12-15?               Swift Current
AUG 17   6 or 7pm     Lloydminster First Baptist Church         3915 47 Avenue, Lloydminster
AUG 24  9:30 & 11    South Edmonton Alliance Church   6508-31 AVE, Edmonton
AUG 24 3:00pm         Burundian Church  Edmonton


AUG 26 ??                  LEAVE FOR BURUNDI


God bless,
    Charles & Darla Balenga ( and kids)

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

There But For The Grace of God, Go I....

During our time in Burundi, one cannot escape the extreme poverty that is rampant here. If a person stays in the capital city, Bujumbura, it is easy to avoid seeing the extreme poverty daily. In Gitega, the second largest city in Burundi, it is impossible to avoid seeing this poverty every single day. There are times when my heart breaks for some of these people and I cannot look them in the eyes….when I look past the torn dirty clothes and the mud caked skin, in their eyes I see utter hopelessness. It is most difficult to have young children begging and asking for money. Micah often asks me “why are we rich mommy?” My answer is “There but for the grace of God, go I….”

Sometimes when Charles has business to attend to, I sit in our van and watch. I watch some of the street people and how life is for them. It is through my watching that I found something that intrigued me…..the differing attitudes of some street people. I watched as two older ladies, one using a stick to lean on for a crutch, approached a shop keeper. The shop keeper appeared a bit agitated with the ladies; he bid them approach, gave them each 100 FBU (approx. $0.06 CDN) and then he quickly shooed them away. The ladies had no smile but they scrambled away, looking to approach another shop keeper.

On another day, I am sitting and watching while Charles goes to buy rice. I see a midget man. He has on a dirty red, soiled shirt with 2 big tears in the back, and it is so big, it almost touches the ground. He also has on old pants that are oversized; the pant legs are rolled up and he has a rope to hold them up. This man is unable to walk very fast because of how his body is formed. I watched as he approached a shop keeper, he had a special way to approach them. His sense of humor brought a different perspective. I watched as he approached, he did a little bow and then a salute to the shop keeper. I saw smiling faces. This young man talked and laughed with the shop keeper. The shop owner gave the man his money and they stayed chatting and laughing for awhile. As he turned to leave the store, he gave another salute to the owner and they both laughed as he hobbled away.

I felt a inner nudge to give this man a small bit of money....we approached this young man and gave to him. He was so joyful and appreciative. He gave us his signature salute and a big wave. A week later, we see the same man. He is alone outside the market. He does not ask us for money but gives us his signature salute and bids us hello in Swahili. He tells us that he prayed for us! He prayed for us! A young man, that literally has nothing, that lives in a society where he is an outcast because of how he looks, he still had something to give. He had his time and energy to give to uplift us to our God.

This young man has taught me a few things.
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         1.   A  person’s outlook on a situation will influence the outcome.

     2.    I have been challenged on my attitude on things….if I were in this young man’s place, would I have such a positive attitude in such dismal circumstances? I have to humbly say that I would have difficulty being satisfied.

    3.    It really is true, that materials and things, do NOT make a person happy. In Canada, we are surrounded by so much that we get caught up in having to “keep up with the Jones’”. This really is a heart issue….we need to learn to be satisfied with what we have and stop spending money on things that we “think” we need....a bigger house, another car, more clothes.  In reality, we do not need very much and God is slowly teaching me this lesson….or rather I think I am just being a slow learner on this one.

    4.   To God, I am no different than a street person…..it is only FOR THE GRACE OF GOD that I was born into a Canadian family and that I had the privileged life that I had. I always had food on the table and a roof over my head. No matter if we are a person with privileges or not, God loves us all the same! When I appear before God in the end days, He will not ask me, how much money I had, or how many cars I owned. I will stand before him, next to a street person, and He will ask us both the same questions….did we love God? did we love people? Did we show God’s love to the people? Paul writes in Titus “But when the kindness of God our Savior and His love for mankind appeared, He saved us, not on the basis of deeds which we have done in righteousness, but according to His mercy.” (Titus 3:4-5 NASB) Another Bible version (The Voice) says this: But then something happened: God our Savior and His overpowering love and kindness for humankind entered our world; He came to save us. It’s not that we earned it by doing good works or righteous deeds; He came because He is merciful.

     Please take time to reflect on the Mercy of God today. Thank Him for all He has done and focus on Him being enough to satisfy you because "But for the grace of God,  there go I..."

        May God bless you and encourage your heart today,
                     
                          Darla Balenga




If you would like to donate to our mission, you can donate through the Youth for Christ Edmonton website or Bridges of Hope website earmarked "burundi mission".

http://www.yfced.com/index.php/donate/how-to-donate
http://www.thebridgesofhope.com/index.php?p=Donate

Tuesday, June 10, 2014

Thank God For Protection: Accident in Africa, a Difficult Challenge


Yesterday, Monday, June 9, 2014 was just another normal day. As GIA closed last Friday, Monday was the first day of our Summer break.Darla decided to make a better use of her day by going to volunteer at the Shammah Medical Clinic, a newly opened Burundi Youth for Christ clinic whose directors are fellow Canadians Josh and Nadine. Josh and Nadine were not available as they had just been sending off Josh’s parents back to Canada. So, Darla’s help was much needed and timely.

Note from Darla:
     It was so amazing to finally be able to work at Shammah for a day! It was great to see how things have come so far in such a short time. I had the pleasure to meet Mathias who came in to the clinic with foot ulcers that he has had for 2 months. My heart broke and I had to leave the room as I got tears in my eyes. Before any treatment could occur, the discussion of money and ability to pay had to be decided.  Mathias really needs surgery, his one toe has already fallen off independently and he has 5 ulcers in his foot that are all interconnected under the top layers of skin! We don't realize how privileged we are in Canada to be able to receive health care, irregardless of what our financial status is, and we are never asked "can you pay". Unfortunately, third world countries don't have the privilege of having any government support.  I witnessed people who were very sick with worms and malaria, have to go into debt for as low as 1200 FBU (approx 85 cents CDN) in order to get the help they needed. Many that come to Shammah have to come back a week later, or a few weeks later to be able to pay off their debt. Back to Matthias, as we removed the old dressing, we could smell the strong odor of dead tissue. Hannah, one of the volunteer nurses that is at Shammah for only a few months, started the task of debriding all the dead and infected tissue from this gentleman's foot.....all done with no anesthetic! It is amazing how strong people can be.

As Darla went to volunteer at Shammah Medical Centre, I stayed home with Joshua, our last born. We had a great day together. We played Soccer, went for a walk, and did different things together. When Darla came back late afternoon, we went as a family to take more passport pictures. It seems in Burundi, you constantly need passport pictures. To open a Bank account, a joint account, we (Darla and I) need to give each 2 photo passport. To get an exit visa, or any visa, you need to give a passport picture. Often your application gets lost, so you need to give another passport picture. To get the 2 years visas, you need to give a passport picture. To get a mail box key, you need to give a photo passport. And the list goes on. So we had to get some more passport photos as we will be applying for our exit visas next week. Please pray for us on that because if there is any place you don’t want to be in is the immigration office. Last time we were there to apply for the 2 years visas, we cannot even explain how extremely challenging the process was.
After taking our passport pictures, as we were turning to go back home, we were hit by a motorbike. Now I was at fault because I didn’t see him as I was turning. Second after the accident, we were surrounded by a sea of people. Everyone was talking in Kirundi and no coordination whatsoever on what needed to be done. The injured biker wanted to go to the hospital (he had a pretty good gash over his eye) and I wanted to take him to the hospital. But some people from the crowd were more worried about the bike than the injured biker. It taught us about perspective on things here.

Having a Muzungu wife and wazungu children (again our kids are also considered Wazungu even though half Black half White) didn’t help as that could only attract an unbelievably huge crowd. The kids were terrified…..Joshua saw the biker with a cut on his head and now calls him “the blood guy”. Mama Savana (as Darla is known here) went to sit with the kids at the back and the biker got in the front. Thank God for Swahili as quite a number of people spoke Swahili and I was able to talk/discuss with them in Swahili. Finally there was another great gentleman who came to help. His name is Deo. He is a former biker himself and had worked with the injured biker also called Dio. Deo, spoke English and that really helped Mama Savana to be able at least to communicate as well. Deo willingly volunteered to accompany us to the hospital. So, I had to push my way out to take injured Diomede to the hospital.

The first hospital we went to was a disaster, to say the least. The nurses cared to do nothing. A Nurse Assistant came to tell us that it would be a while before Diomede will be seen. But thank God again, both Deo and Diomede knew of a better hospital, the Bettany Hospital, a Catholic Nuns hospital. They suggested we go there. So we decided to go there. It is about 7 kilometers from Gitega. So we dropped Mama Savana and the kids and off we went. Bettany was really as good as Deo and Diomede had told me. The Nurses didn’t waste any time, cleaned the wound and stiched it. She was very kind and efficient. The hospital was clean and welcoming. I was impressed. Soon after the treatment, we were given a prescription and we went to get medication for Diomede. After that I went to drop Diomede and Deo to their respective homes.

During our drive together we talked with Diodeme and Deo about their lives and work. They also wanted to know what I do and why are we here in Burundi. They were glad to hear that we were volunteering at Gitega International Academy. Deo said, “He is a pastor!” They were both Christians. So I prayed for Diomede’s healing and they then went home.

Now today, we will be busy gettings quotes for the repair of the Bike and also our van. Our van has only one back door. This back door was the only damaged part and now it does not close. While driving
Diomede to the hospital, Deo had to hold the door closed. There was no other way to take Dio to the Hospital. We had to use our damaged van. Thank God for Deo who was a great help. Through this all, we know God was with us. Right after the accident, our van side door closed but the next time we opened it, it would not close. We thank God that the door closed at the scene or it may have been another reason for the crowd to hold us up. Now, the door is tied closed with a skipping rope until we can get it fixed.

Please pray that Diomede will heal completely and that the Bike will be repaired quickly. The Bike was not Diomede’s moto, he was just a hired driver to be a taxi with the moto. Please pray that our van will be fixed in time for us to go to the wedding in Bujumbura  this weekend and to also go apply for our exit visas. Please pray for God’s wisdom for us to know how to go about this whole process as the more time goes on, the more people get involved and the more complicated the process gets. Please pray for our kids who were really shaken by the whole experience.
Experimenting with new styles on Savana's hair

Savana & Joshua playing with rocks from Mt Songa
      
Elijah eating cookies cooked on a traditional stove